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On the Internet, Chinese girls are often labeled as “EasyGirl”, and social media is also full of various such pictures and videos.
Recently, several Ukrainians were traveling in Nanning, Guangxi. Seeing that the girls in Nanning were beautiful, they made a bet to verify whether Oriental girls were cheap. A boy hugged the strange girl next to him. Unexpectedly, the girl was a local of Nanning. She pointed at the foreign boy angrily and said: are you ok, f**k you?
At this time, the boy was still confused and didn't know what happened.
Unexpectedly, after the angry Nanning girl calmed down, she did something admirable. She did not hit anyone, but chose to calmly call the police. She did not compromise because the other party was a foreigner, but defended her dignity with her calmness and determination.
She said: I will not condone hooliganism, nor will I compromise because the other party is a foreigner.
Chinese girl “Huang Ting”, 21 years old, is studying at Dalian University of Technology and has a boyfriend. I came to Shanghai to watch the game two days ago and met Zeus, a 37-year-old Ukrainian man who was a former professional CSGO player and had a wife and children. The first day they met, they had sex in the hotel. Zeus secretly took a photo and posted it in the fan group to show off. The occurrence of this incident has strengthened the stereotypes of some Chinese girls among foreign men.
Just now, a “Huang Ting” account on social media publicly said “sorry” to her boyfriend. It is said that her boyfriend is usually very generous to her, and spends a lot of money on buying things and gifts. He even helped her buy the tickets to watch the performance in Shanghai this time.
“Huang Ting” also apologized to the public, stating, “I am well aware that my wrong behavior violated public order and moral norms, and also destroyed the harmony and beauty of the online environment. I understand that no matter what the reason, a mistake is a mistake, and it cannot be an excuse for me. I feel extremely regretful for my impulsiveness and ignorance, and I am full of apologies to those who have been hurt by me.”
In a previous statement, “Huang Ting” also said that she was an “ordinary girl.” Perhaps, it is precisely because of her ordinary and casual behavior towards foreign men that the good image of Chinese women as “gentle, kind, respectful, frugal and modest” has been greatly damaged, making the incident more critical in the public eye.
“Easy Girl” generally refers to women who are too open, frivolous, or careless in sexual behavior. This label itself is gendered and derogatory, which means negatively judging women's behavior. Standardizing women's behavior and giving them negative evaluations is not only unfair, but also promotes gender discrimination. Every woman's behavior, personality and lifestyle are diverse and cannot be defined by a label.
Chinese girls (or women) have rich personalities, backgrounds, interests, values and lifestyles, just like girls in any other country. Chinese society is also constantly changing, and more and more women have independent careers, academic achievements and social status, and express themselves in various fields. The understanding of Chinese girls should be based on respect for their individual differences, rather than evaluating them with a negative label.
We should respect everyone's choices and behaviors, rather than labeling them based on external factors such as culture, gender, and race. When we meet people of different cultures and backgrounds on social platforms or in real life, we should understand and respect their choices with an open mind, rather than making unfair judgments.
For Zeus, pursuing romance while traveling around the world for competitions and being unfaithful to his wife in marriage, as well as his frivolous behavior towards the girl “Huang Ting”, is despicable.
在互联网上，中国女孩经常被贴上“随便女孩EasyGirl”的标签，在社交媒体上面，也充斥着各种各样的这样的图片、视频。
近日几个乌克兰人在南宁广西旅游时，看到南宁的女生长得漂亮，就打赌验证一下东方女孩是不是廉价的。一个男生就抱了旁边的陌生女生。没想到女生是南宁本地人，她气冲冲指着外国男生说：are you ok， f**k you?
这时，这个男生还一脸懵逼，不知道发生了什么事。
没想到，气愤的南宁女生冷静下来后，做了让人佩服的事情。她没有动手打人，而是选择冷静报警处理，她也没有因为对方是外国人而妥协，而是用自己的冷静和坚决捍卫自己的尊严。
她说：我不会纵容流氓行为，我也不会因为对方是外国人而妥协。
中国女孩“黄婷”, 21岁，就读于大连工业大学，有男朋友。前两天来到上海观看比赛，结识了CSGO游戏前职业选手，有老婆孩子的乌克兰37岁男子Zeus。两个人结识的第一天，就在酒店发生了关系。Zeus偷拍下来发在粉丝群里炫耀。这一事件的发生，强化了外国男性对一些中国女孩的刻板印象。
刚刚，社交媒体一个“黄婷”账号向其男友公开说“对不起”。据说，他男友平时对她非常大方了，买东西送礼物没少花钱，连她这次去上海看表演的票都是他帮忙买的。
“黄婷”还向公众道歉，声明说，“我深知自己的错误行径违背了公序良俗和道德规范，也破坏了网络环境的和谐与美好。我明白，无论出于何种原因，错误就是错误，都不能成为我开脱的理由。我对自己的冲动和无知感到无比懊悔，也对那些被我伤害到的人充满了歉意。”
在此前的声明中，“黄婷”也曾表示，她是一个“普通女孩”。也许，正因为她普通又对外国男性的随便做法，极大伤害到中国女性“温良恭俭让”的良好形象，从而让事件更有公众上的批判意义。
“Easy Girl” 一般指的是在性行为方面过于开放、轻浮、或者不拘小节的女性。这种标签本身就是性别化的、带有贬义的，意味着对女性的行为进行负面评判。而将女性的行为标准化并赋予负面的评价，不仅不公平，还会助长性别歧视。每个女性的行为、个性和生活方式都是多样化的，无法通过一个标签来定义。
中国女孩（或女性）和其他任何国家的女孩一样，具有丰富的个性、背景、兴趣、价值观和生活方式。中国社会也在不断变化，越来越多的女性有着独立的职业、学术成就和社会地位，并在各种领域展现自我。对于中国女孩的理解应当建立在对她们个体差异的尊重上，而不是以一个负面的标签来评价。
我们应当尊重每个人的选择和行为，而不是依据文化、性别、种族等外部因素来给他们贴标签。当我们在社交平台或现实生活中遇到不同文化、背景的人时，应该用开放的心态去理解和尊重他们的选择，而非做出不公正的判断。
对于Zeus，在全世界比赛旅行中追求浪漫而对婚姻中妻子的不忠，以及对于女孩“黄婷”的轻浮举动，是令人不齿的。
